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Just A Little Bit Of Randomness

Everything written below is out of boredom. 

The country I came from is fond of boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. The religion I believe in does not really permit premarital relationships. So, how do you cope? How do you really get the culture out of religion? I don't really know.

I have had loads of crushes - a lot. I adored how one dresses, how one does his hair, or how one talks. Then, out of nowhere, I tell myself, this isn't right. I shouldn't be admiring those guys. I mean, they do look good with their hair and material things they put on. I am not a perfect person. I commit mistakes. I repent. I make sure that I would not commit the same mistake over again.

Somehow, you need greater iman and sabr in a country such as mine. When you and your girlfriends go out, they are with someone and you are alone. Well, of course, I am not because I have my imaginary friend by my side. :D

I may sometimes be lacking in terms of relationships coz I don't have one other than what I have with my friends, family, and Allah. But I am glad because I don't have to worry whenever someone does not reply my messages, or does not pick up my calls. I could care less.

When friends are complaining about their boyfriends being all selfish and dumb, I just listen. Profoundly because I don't have one to complain about. It's a good thing. I am not rushing things anyway. I am awesome this way.

To all single ladies, hey don't fret. We rock. We roll. We do everything we want. Well, it's not everything though, because there is still Islam that lets me remember the right things to do.

Now I can say, I am growing up. I finally know which the right thing to do is. I had made decisions that might have gone the wrong way, but I am getting up and going to that road where it leads me to goodness. Akhirat is becoming nearer each day. The only love that will guide us is the love we have for Allah, Islam, and the teachings of Prophet Muhammad SAW.

You can never find the perfect love in someone. Why? Because it is within you. Only then you will know happiness when you find that spark within you that shouts I've finally found love.

Now is time in my life
I know what is wrong from right
Going to take this chance on your love
And as you to be my bride.
Now I know it's maybe hard to understand
I know this may some crazy
I know this messy little bit hard to believe
But what I am trying to say it's true

Listen to the song. I love it more than any other love song in earth. Probably because I kind of dream of the song to be true. Probably because it's the righteous thing to do for any man. Probably because I found love. Echoz! haha.

That ruined my dream. Kthnxbye.


  1. i love the video up there.
    you really are true  to yourself, i like you being yourself while writing this :)

  2. awww.. nice song sis :)
    God  really has a plan for all of us.. 
    all of us are meant for someone special talaga.. :D
    kung wala pa naman siya now, cge lang.. wait lang at darating rin siya ;)

  3. This is a beautiful message and a beautiful song. nakaka touch and inspire talaga.  When the right one comes along talaga...di dapat hinahanap. :) Kusang darating. :D

  4. love the song sis! ;) ang the pictures are so cute..! ;) God is always with us and have plans for us! :) just believe in him and everything will be alright! :)) have a great  day!

  5. gee. thanks for the support. hahaha. <3

  6. hahaha. IKR! :D kaya nga, stand back, relax lang ang show. lols.

  7. naks. nga sis eh. sabi ko pa, mag-aasawa na ako bigla. di ako magboboyfriend. lol! :D :D

  8. yeah. i know a lot who do that too. i just find it too complicated. it's not worth the disobedient anyway. so, why bother? haha
    true. when you're busy, you can't really think of those things. heheh

  9. Singles rock! I agree :) Being in a serious relationship is hassle (base on my own experience and opinion about it). There's still a lot of things for us to do in this world.If it's not the right time, it will never be. God's time is always the perfect one :D

  10. Well i'm glad you're happy with your life and I admire that you have so much faith in your religion :) That's always a good thing. I know you will definitely have a successful relationship in the future!

  11. true true. hahaha. magastos din tlga. kaya tyaga na lang mag-isa. hahaha

  12. yay. thanks sis. <3
    i hope magdilang anghel ka. :D

  13. sis apir!! lol... i agree being single is awesome.. no worries but sometimes i get into awkward situations where all my friends had their bf's with them and i'm alone :( sure they make me feel comfortable pero iba parin yung feeling eh...
    the right time and person will come.. no worries, no rush. God loves us and that's enough :)

  14. I love the song too ... wow , with that beauty , your single ? Yes, I believe God is currently writing the best love story right?  i also believe God have reserved someone for you :)  (I'm saying this but me too... I'm single haha )

  15. that thing happened to me too a year ago, and I decided to finally have one ( I prayed for that ) and my wish is granted , after a month we broke up :( and i realize -real lies of him , and I was just hurt , the consequence of rushing to fall in love :D

  16. Gusto ko to! "I don’t have to worry whenever someone does not reply my messages, or does not pick up my calls." taha and yung [/]God is writing my love story! NBSB ba ikaw Ayah? :)

  17. hmmm. you have to guess on the answer of your question sis :D


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